Buddha deals with anger

One day the Buddha was passing through a village and he sat down with his large monastic following to rest. He began to teach and as soon as the Buddha started talking many people gathered around to hear him.    One grumpy man was on the outskirts. Maybe he was mad about the Buddha blocking local traffic or was just sick of seeing spiritual teachers coming through his small town. He began to yell at the Buddha, accusing him of being a charlatan. The Buddha wasn’t fazed by this attack though. He remained ever-loving and calm. Finally, when the guy wouldn’t shut up, he asked a simple question of the grumpy man. “If you purchased a gift for someone,” the Buddha inquired, “but that person did not accept the gift, to whom would it belong?” The man was taken by surprise by this question. “I guess it would still belong to me, because I bought it, right?” “That’s exactly right,” said the Buddha. “In the same way, if you offer me anger but I don’t accept your curses and accusations, not getting angry in return, then isn’t the anger you offer returned to you, its owner?” The grumpy man was overwhelmed and bowed to the Buddha. The Buddha continued, “As a mirror reflects an object, as a still lake reflects the sky—take care that what you speak or act is for good. For goodness will always cast back goodness.”

– from Love Hurts: Buddhist Advice for The Heartbroken

One thought on “Buddha deals with anger

  1. Grrrr. ;O)

    On Tue, Feb 27, 2018 at 11:38 AM, Edge of Atlantic wrote:

    > Bill Schulz posted: “One day the Buddha was passing through a village and > he sat down with his large monastic following to rest. He began to teach > and as soon as the Buddha started talking many people gathered around to > hear him. One grumpy man was on the outskirts. Maybe ” >

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